Take care of yourself when you're busy
Self-care can be relegated to the backburner of the to-do list when life gets busy. Work, kids, spouse, parents, and house maintenance mean there’s no time left for you. You know self-care is important, even critical, but it slips off the radar all too often.
Self-care can seem self-indulgent when you’re busy, but it’s quite the opposite. “You have to take care of yourself to take care of others,” as the saying goes. Recharging yourself provides you with the energy to take on your responsibilities without burning out.
Self-care ideas for when life gets busy
Food
Eating right is often one of the first things to go. You’re tired and worn out at the end of a hard day, and everyone is hungry and expecting supper. So, you hit a drive-thru or make a call for delivery to relieve the pressure; and it works. But it creates a vicious cycle.
You know the cycle. You’re tired, so you eat fast food. Then you end up feeling even more tired. So, you’re even more likely to eat fast food again. Break the cycle with healthy meal options from your health food store and add a multi-vitamin to everyone in the family’s regimen. Consider a healthy smoothie that’s quick and easy to make for when you get home, so you have the energy to make a meal for the family. Protein powder is a perfect smoothie addition when you’re on the go!
Sleep
Staying up late is an incredible temptation when you feel like you’re at the end of your rope. And with your mind racing, it can be next to impossible to get to sleep. A little bit of alone time can be beneficial, but staying up too late only perpetuates the cycle.
To break this cycle, melatonin helps the body relax, allowing you to get to sleep without the grogginess you can expect from many other sleep aids. With melatonin, you wake up refreshed and ready to take on the day!
Exercise
Sure, we’ve all heard it; but when life gets busy, the gym slips off the to-do list, too. So, how do you make sure to exercise when you don’t have the two and a half hours a week that experts recommend?
In the short term, fit some activities into your daily life. Take the stairs. Do some chair yoga. Take a walk around the block (or the office hallways) on your lunch break. Dance in the kitchen while you’re cooking a meal. Then, gradually add visits to the gym. Keep moving!
People
Even during lockdown, it’s important to have interactions with others. Make time for video calls with coworkers, friends, and family members to catch up on lost time when circumstances keep you apart. Video conference singalongs, shared meals, and casual chats help fill the void created by not spending as much time with people in person.
But often, when things stack up, alone time is what you need. Read a good novel, take a bubble bath, or watch some trashy reality TV guilt-free. Add a healthy snack, and you’re good to go! (Keep in mind, as tempting as it might be, social media time flies by without feeding your need to get away from it all).
In Conclusion
Self-care creates a distinct self-fulfilling cycle. When you’re feeling good about yourself and your life, chances are your self-care routine is also well-balanced. When things get out of balance, it becomes harder to care for yourself, and the routine breaks down.
So, when you find your self-care cycle suffering, break it to get back on track with these tips for self-care when you’re busy.